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Conversations with Tom is a compelling dialogue discussing principles of personal development present within pop culture, music and media.

 

Whether they're 1) "regrettable moments that could have gone good" or 2) "remarkable moments worth remembering" - success leaves clues - and these conversations uncover them by presenting Lifestyle Initiative Training concepts and strategies to embrace the RockStar Way™!

 

Incorporating a unique approach to writing a "column," Conversations with Tom employs an interview-style format between Tom Leu and the notorious, Ricky Midway. Tough questions are exchanged and points are raised that too often get glossed-over. The interaction and insights shared here produce powerful opportunities for personal growth and professional development... if you're into that sort of thing.

 

"Once Written"

"Buffet(t)"

"Lust Kills"

"Pop Quiz"

"Something to Prove" "Bathroom Books"

"When I Grow Up"

 

 


 

“Once Written (April '09)

 

What is this?

 

A whenever-I-feel-like-it column/essay/article in the format of a Q&A. I'm calling it Conversations with Tom.

 

Who's asking the questions?

 

Ricky Midway; the interviewer and my alter-ego. He represents all the voices in my head asking the tough questions.  

 

Okay... and you, Tom Leu, are answering these questions?

 

Yep. With brutal honesty, humility, and (hopefully) humor at times.

 

So do you think you're a good enough writer to pull this off?

 

I think so. I consider myself a decent writer; though I’ve never actually written anything “noteworthy” yet. So I don't know if that qualifies me as good or not.

 

Define "noteworthy."

 

Unless one's writing has been legitimately published by a reputable (and often sizeable) book or periodical publisher, it doesn’t really count, nor matter (they say)... therefore not noteworthy.

 

So who are "they" that get to determine what is "good' and what is deemed "worthy?" And how does one go about getting that job?

 

That's a good question… I guess it's those people in any industry who decide what gets mass produced and what doesn’t. I’ll call them the "Keepers of the Content Contingency" or the KCC.

 

So only something legitimately published qualifies it as noteworthy?

 

It seems that way, though I know a lot of exceptions exist. But not only does a writer’s work have to be legitimately published for it to really count; this published work also has to be consumed (i.e. purchased) by some pre-determined (large) number of people to validate the writing’s relative worth by financially justifying its existence. Then and only then can one be truly considered "a writer."

 

Sounds stringent.

 

It is.

 

So who made up these requisite rules of writing? Members of the KCC?

 

(laughing) Most likely. But ironically, I’m fairly certain that whoever it was probably isn’t a "real" writer either.

 

Now that's funny! And likely true.

 

It's actually kind of sad if you think about it.

 

These supposed "experts" in any field are certainly not the final authority are they?

 

No they're not. This is why we (the writers, artists, content creators) have to understand the relationship between creativity, contribution, and commerce. You see, only YOU (the creator) can truly decide what is "good" regarding creativity. And only OTHERS (the consumer) can truly validate what is "good" regarding contribution. And then for commerce to truly exist requires an "agreement" between YOU and OTHERS.

 

Interesting...

 

Thank you.

 

So is that what this column is about? Creativity? Contribution? Commerce?

 

Yes it is, among other things. It's an ongoing conversation about life and the Lifestyle Initiative Training that results from blending the many principles of personal development with motivation, music and media. It's what I call the RockStar Way™. And to be a "rock star" is about being your best at what you do the best! It's a process.

 

Interesting...

 

You already said that.

 

I did, didn't I?

 

I'll take that as a compliment.

 

You should. Your whole approach here sounds rather insightful, exciting and fresh.

 

Well that sounds like a good ending note to this initial conversation.

 

It does. Guess I'll "talk" to you soon...

 


 

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